What stories do you tell yourself when you review each quarter?
Are they mostly of success or of things not achieved?
It can be so easy to tell ourselves we could or should have done more but is that really true?
What DID you achieve? Start a list and add everything you can think of, however seemingly small.
What got in the way of the others you didn’t quite manage?
While I’m not recommending completely letting yourself off the hook for jobs not done well, I AM recommending rewriting your story. We’re wired to be self-critical even when we don’t need to be.
If you did the best you could during a challenging period then make that your story.
If actually you were awesome, then make that your story.
Rewrite your story with a positive spin and start the new quarter with that in mind.
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Rachel Maunder is a communication skills and speaker coach and professional...
What are you moving away from and what are you moving towards?
In a world of constant change, we’re always leaving some things behind and bringing in some new. Even a positive change can mean leaving something behind that you’ll miss, and a change you’re less happy to be making can have some benefits too.
You get to choose which to focus on. You can either dwell in the past and regret all those things you’ll miss, and only notice the downsides of the change.
Alternatively, you can embrace the change and notice its benefits. What are you glad to be leaving behind and what are you looking forward to?
It’s human to have regrets, but perhaps you can reframe them into gratitude that those things left behind have been part of your life.
Being open to what lies ahead creates greater optimism and positivity, so which will you choose?
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