Filling the gaps

‘Sorry – can’t make it this morning. Am locked in my bedroom, waiting for the gardener to arrive.’

What image comes to mind for you?

It was the gist of a recent message in a WhatsApp group. You can imagine the comments that followed.

I’m sharing it because it’s a great example of how our brain naturally fills any gaps in information.

This will apply to your audience too when you share your story.

If you’re anxious about sharing too much of a vulnerability story, a lot of detail isn’t necessary. Give a few pointers of what happened and your listeners will fill the gaps for themselves, based on their own experience. Anyone who experienced something similar will know straight away and the others will have enough of an idea.

Do however make sure you give enough information so the gaps are filled appropriately and your message is conveyed clearly.

Too big a gap gives space for wild imaginations.

To find out how I can help you share your story. Get in touch to arrange a call.

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Rachel Maunder is a communication skills and speaker coach and professional speaker.

She has been in the world of competent communication, in different guises, for more than 30 years so has a wealth of knowledge, experience and expertise to pass on to her clients, both through her signature programmes and her own presentations.  

You can find out more about her coaching programmes here and about her speaking topics here.